Picture what. What does it mean? Talking 🫠 to the wife of a 32-year-old programmer who died suddenly: When he died, his whole body was less than 300 yuan, and he had only taken one annual leave in ten years. He generally doesn't drink because he has hepatitis B, but once he came back drunk at one o'clock in the evening and said that he couldn't help it, and he was drunk with a client. The company has a serious overtime culture, and I feel ashamed to walk after nine o'clock, so I can only secretly take the elevator and dare not take the elevator - because the elevator has to swipe the work card, and HR will monitor the background login time. In addition to writing code, he also has to connect with customers, handle after-sales, be responsible for recruitment, and manage more than a dozen people. He wrote on an app that he had been docking with customers, and his technology had not grown, and he was very frustrated, feeling that he was not doing well enough. He also complained to his colleagues that the company handed over the business line that was originally responsible for more than 20 people to him, but did not send additional manpower. In his salary, the basic salary is only more than 3,000, but his performance is very good, and he can get about 19,000 yuan a month. The company advocates "no borders" and "family culture", work responsibilities have no boundaries, work and life have no boundaries, and also encourages couples to work together in the company. I went to the company at 7 a.m. to retrieve the relics, but the people in the company's risk control center said that the family was a risk factor and could not stay, drove me outside, and even tried to provoke me, wanting me to act too aggressively and then call the police. Until after three o'clock in the afternoon, I didn't ask for my husband's lost relics. In 2022, we have our own little home. We bought a full mortgage of 2.65 million yuan, with a down payment of 790,000 yuan, two people and a half, a total loan of more than one million, and the mortgage was more than 9,700 yuan a month at the beginning, and we desperately tried to make money to repay the loan early. Then the economy went down, and I was laid off. Because I wanted to change from a programmer to a product manager, and I was not in good health and preparing for pregnancy, I temporarily rested at home. We have always lived a frugal life, with a monthly payment of six or seven thousand after early repayment, more than 3,000 monthly expenses, and basically cooking by ourselves, so we can save 10,000 yuan a month. Although he is busy with work, he always reports good news and not bad news, maybe he is afraid that I will worry, and only said that the boss above does not understand technology and constantly lays off employees. It wasn't until after his death that I listened to the work recordings that I realized he had such a large workload. Looking back now, the only time he was happy recently was when we traveled to Yunnan together in June last year. This is the only 5-day annual leave he has taken for himself in ten years of work, and it is also the only and last trip we have traveled in the past eight years.