Have you noticed that the times have changed?

The current era is truly different from before. In the past, when you went out to handle affairs, there were many friends and many ways.
But now, more and more people are running their own companies, becoming super individuals.
And those who used to have many friends and social engagements now have absolutely more work.
This is also why everyone starts pretending to be poor during the New Year. Even if they buy cars and houses outside, they insist on saying they are in debt when they return to their hometown, otherwise they can't have a peaceful New Year.
People are not only concerned with saving money; they also pay attention to resource allocation in terms of energy. After 35, the remaining time outside of work, life, family, and children is only enough to focus on a few important people or points to achieve the desired results. And these key people either provide emotional value or bring benefits in return.
So don't waste your time on ineffective socializing anymore.
In adulthood, everyone's relationships depend on value, whether it's lovers, partners, friends, or business associates. When you have value, the right people will naturally gravitate toward you.