After trading for a long time, you'll gradually realize a cruel truth — losing money is never because you misread the market, but because you can't control those hands.
Many losing trades become very clear in hindsight — it's not that the market didn't give an opportunity, but that you should have been out of the market, yet you found an excuse to "try a trade casually." It's this kind of luck-driven mentality every time that ultimately leads to cutting losses.
Later, I set a strict set of rules for opening positions. Not to make quick money, but to survive longer.
**Rule 1: Don't move unless you're at a key level.**
Only participate at clear support or resistance levels. No matter how tempting the market looks in between, pass on it. Most people fall here — always thinking about bottom fishing or top selling, only to get repeatedly cut in the sideways market.
**Rule 2: Don't act until the trend is confirmed.**
Reversals can be traded, but only after the market has formed a clear pattern. Before a true breakout, all judgments are guesses, with too much gambling involved.
**Rule 3: Don't trade without a system signal.**
When placing an order, your trading system is the only commander. Never operate based on feelings, and certainly not on emotions. Once subjective judgment is involved, losses are not far behind.
**Rule 4: Don't trade if you can't clearly define your stop-loss.**
If you're hesitating about where to set your stop-loss before opening a trade, it indicates a problem with that trade itself. If you haven't properly assessed the risk, what makes you think you can gamble on the reward?
**Rule 5: Don't trade if risk and reward don't match.**
If the potential loss exceeds the potential profit, there's no need to take the trade even if your directional judgment is correct. This is often overlooked but is the most crucial for survival.
These five rules seem simple, but the real challenge is only two words: execution.
Markets are available every day, and opportunities are never lacking. The real difference lies in — whether you can control that habitual "confirmation" hand. Those who can survive long-term in the market are mostly not because they predict perfectly, but because they can truly hold back when they should stay put.
The reason some trades can consistently make money is fundamentally this: self-discipline. Stay calm when the market is crazy, stick to your rules when temptation arises. This is not some advanced technical analysis; it’s the most basic risk management.
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ShamedApeSeller
· 01-05 12:45
I've said so much, but it's just that I can't quit the itchiness of my hands. I'm the kind of person who knows the rules but forgets them the moment I turn around.
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FUDwatcher
· 01-04 11:28
That's so heartbreaking, it's this "try any order casually" that broke me and made me bankrupt.
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BearMarketMonk
· 01-04 02:23
You're so right, being reckless is a death sentence. That's how I get cut every time now.
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BrokenYield
· 01-03 14:53
tbh the "hands problem" is just cope for poor position sizing... real losses come from shit risk-adjusted returns, not finger twitching
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ExpectationFarmer
· 01-03 14:52
That hits too close to home; being impulsive is indeed the biggest enemy in trading.
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The hardest part is that word "patience"; I'm also practicing this skill.
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These five iron rules are well written, but very few people truly follow them.
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Controlling your hands is really more difficult than watching the market, I have deep experience.
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Every time I tell myself to stay out of the market, I just can't resist pressing that button, laughing and crying.
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Execution is easy to talk about, but when faced with the market, I forget everything.
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It's a bit outrageous that we all know these principles, but just can't do them.
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I think the most critical rule is the mismatch between risk and reward, but it's also the easiest to overlook.
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It's not that I can't read the market accurately, but greed takes over in that moment, and I go all in.
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When you get serious, self-discipline is the true secret to long-term survival.
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MetaMaximalist
· 01-03 14:48
nah this discipline thing is exactly what separates the survivors from the liquidation crowd... most retail just don't have the protocol architecture in their heads to resist fomo, it's a network effect problem really
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CrossChainBreather
· 01-03 14:41
That hurts. I'm the one who can't control my 🤦 and still has to keep practicing.
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GasBandit
· 01-03 14:37
That's so true, the biggest enemy in trading is really the itch to act.
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tokenomics_truther
· 01-03 14:24
You said it very accurately, I am the one who can't control my hands... I have already paid too much tuition fees.
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TokenomicsTinfoilHat
· 01-03 14:24
You're absolutely right, it's just that I was reckless... I used to always try to buy the dip and sell at the top, but in the end, I was just sacrificing myself in the volatility. Now, I just sell when I can, idle money is the most profitable money.
After trading for a long time, you'll gradually realize a cruel truth — losing money is never because you misread the market, but because you can't control those hands.
Many losing trades become very clear in hindsight — it's not that the market didn't give an opportunity, but that you should have been out of the market, yet you found an excuse to "try a trade casually." It's this kind of luck-driven mentality every time that ultimately leads to cutting losses.
Later, I set a strict set of rules for opening positions. Not to make quick money, but to survive longer.
**Rule 1: Don't move unless you're at a key level.**
Only participate at clear support or resistance levels. No matter how tempting the market looks in between, pass on it. Most people fall here — always thinking about bottom fishing or top selling, only to get repeatedly cut in the sideways market.
**Rule 2: Don't act until the trend is confirmed.**
Reversals can be traded, but only after the market has formed a clear pattern. Before a true breakout, all judgments are guesses, with too much gambling involved.
**Rule 3: Don't trade without a system signal.**
When placing an order, your trading system is the only commander. Never operate based on feelings, and certainly not on emotions. Once subjective judgment is involved, losses are not far behind.
**Rule 4: Don't trade if you can't clearly define your stop-loss.**
If you're hesitating about where to set your stop-loss before opening a trade, it indicates a problem with that trade itself. If you haven't properly assessed the risk, what makes you think you can gamble on the reward?
**Rule 5: Don't trade if risk and reward don't match.**
If the potential loss exceeds the potential profit, there's no need to take the trade even if your directional judgment is correct. This is often overlooked but is the most crucial for survival.
These five rules seem simple, but the real challenge is only two words: execution.
Markets are available every day, and opportunities are never lacking. The real difference lies in — whether you can control that habitual "confirmation" hand. Those who can survive long-term in the market are mostly not because they predict perfectly, but because they can truly hold back when they should stay put.
The reason some trades can consistently make money is fundamentally this: self-discipline. Stay calm when the market is crazy, stick to your rules when temptation arises. This is not some advanced technical analysis; it’s the most basic risk management.