I've been in this circle for almost ten years. In the first few years, I kept trading contracts, and liquidation was just a daily routine. One careless move when the market fluctuated, and my money was gone. Before I even felt the heat, it was already lost.
Back then, I was very resentful, always feeling the market was too ruthless. Later, I slowly realized that the real problem wasn't the market itself, but myself—greed, impatience, and the desire to quickly recover losses.
Now I can't say I'm very strong, but at least I haven't been wiped out by a sudden market wave in years. What I want to say are lessons learned with real money and blood. It might sound uncomfortable, but it can help you pay less tuition.
**Accept the reality after being trapped**
The scariest thing isn't the account loss itself, but starting to deceive yourself. I've seen too many people, after being trapped, only have one thought—add to their position. Why? Because they gamble on "another wave of market movement will free me."
But there's a big problem with this. If adding to your position isn't supported by solid logic or a clear plan, you're actually increasing your risk, not lowering your cost. Many people step into this trap gradually, getting deeper and deeper, and eventually can't turn around. Relying on adding to positions to reverse losses is often the beginning of doubled losses.
**Be extra cautious during the quietest market times**
After a big rally, if the market stays sideways for a long time, there are two possibilities: either it's gathering strength for the next move or brewing a trend reversal. This calm period can easily lull people into complacency, and everyone starts relaxing their vigilance, leading to various thoughts and ideas.
In fact, this seemingly stable sideways period hides the greatest risks. The more you think everything is fine, the more you should consider the worst-case scenario. Often, market turning points are buried in these "safe-looking" moments.
**Keep some reserve in your position**
Going all-in looks "powerful," but in reality, it pushes you into a corner. The market's movement will never fully follow your expectations. If you make a wrong judgment once and have no spare funds to handle emergencies, you'll probably be forced out.
Keep two or three成 of cash on hand. It may seem like giving up some gains, but it's the price of surviving longer. In this market, staying alive is more important than anything else.
**Mindset is the ultimate elimination factor**
The real reason people get eliminated in this circle isn't because of poor technical skills, but because of emotional outbursts. After making profits, they start to get cocky, feeling invincible; after losses, they panic and make reckless moves.
Whether you can survive long-term depends on whether you can control your own heart. Not getting carried away after gains, not panicking after losses—sounds simple, but it's the hardest lesson to learn. Yet, it's also the most important.
Mainstream coins like ETH and BNB's price movements are visible to us all. But in the face of major market trends, personal skills and luck often matter less than mindset and risk management.
All these lessons are paid for with blood and tears. There are no fancy tricks—just ways to help you survive. If you're not aiming for overnight riches but want to walk steadily, then maybe our paths are truly the same.
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0xSunnyDay
· 01-10 17:38
Ten years of sharpening the sword, now that's the truth. Where are those full-position traders now?
Adding to the position is gambler's mentality. I've done it too, and thinking back, it still makes me quite fearful.
The phrase "sideways trading is the most dangerous" must be etched in your mind. Every time you feel safe, that's when the danger is greatest.
Living is much harder than making money, this statement is truly profound.
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rugpull_ptsd
· 01-08 09:24
Honestly, surviving for ten years is already a win. Most people have already been cleared out.
I've seen too many full-position strategies, always saying this wave will recover, but instead they get deeper and deeper, and it's more painful to lose your mind than your account.
The phrase "sideways trading is the most dangerous" really hit me. Suddenly getting hit when you're asleep, it's hard to defend against.
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AlwaysAnon
· 01-07 22:46
Damn, this is the same strategy I lost money on ten years ago. Only now do I understand when I hear others recount it... Going all-in back then was truly brainless.
The advice about adding to your position is spot on. So many people just get deeper and deeper into it, and I have real-life examples around me.
I totally agree that sideways trading is the most dangerous. Too many people were careless at that time and got wiped out by a sudden reversal.
Keeping some cash on hand is just giving yourself a way out. I only realize this now; before, I was all about greed.
Ultimately, it's about mindset. No matter how good your skills are, you can't prevent yourself from screwing up. Only after losing do you understand.
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rekt_but_not_broke
· 01-07 21:52
Ten years of seasoned traders' words truly hit the heart, especially the part about adding to positions, I feel deeply.
I've experienced too many margin calls and liquidations; it's really the beginning of self-deception.
During sideways markets, it's easiest to relax vigilance, but that's when you're in the most danger. They're right.
It's important to keep some cash to survive longer. Everyone understands this principle, but in practice, it's easy to go all in.
Emotional management is the final test; no matter how good your skills are, losing control of your emotions is useless.
Don't get carried away when you make profits, and stay calm when you lose. I need to engrain this in my mind.
It's all the truth. Although it's not pleasant to hear, it's the most useful thing.
Compared to trading techniques, this kind of living wisdom is much more valuable.
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GateUser-44a00d6c
· 01-07 21:51
Well, the talk about adding to positions is a bit upsetting; that's how I lost my first trade.
Really, I deeply understand that sideways trading is the most dangerous; every time, I get ambushed at this moment.
Full position trading—just thinking about it now makes me break out in a cold sweat.
Honestly, it's all about mindset. What I fear the most now isn't the decline, but the feeling of floating after making a profit.
Ten years later, I'm still talking about these basics. Forget it, I'll just live like this.
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LiquidityNinja
· 01-07 21:51
Honestly, listening to these ten years will save you a bunch of brain cells... I've also done the full position strategy, and now that I think about it, it's basically gambling with your life.
The trap of adding to your position—how many people have died in the illusion of "just one more wave and I'll turn things around."
The most heartbreaking phrase is "being alive is more important than anything," which is the real truth of this circle.
The most dangerous time is during sideways trading; on the surface, everything seems calm, but underneath, it's all knives.
Make a profit and don't get cocky; lose and don't panic—sounds like a single sentence, but it's a lifetime of practice...
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zkNoob
· 01-07 21:50
Bro, your words really hit home. I'm the kind of fool who gets trapped and still hopes to buy the dip and turn things around.
Honestly, I've played enough with full positions already. Now I just keep some spare cash to calm my nerves, feeling like I've lived a bit longer.
To be honest, the thing I fear most is those sideways days, where I spend every day pondering and easily get impulsive and make reckless moves.
I'm still far from having the right mindset. I get excited after making a couple of points, and start panicking after losing a couple of points. When will I be able to stay steady like you? That would be considered a win.
But on the other hand, surviving ten years in this game already means I've beaten most people. The biggest test in our circle is human nature.
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PanicSeller
· 01-07 21:31
Damn, isn't this just my autobiography? The part about adding positions is so intense.
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Ten years... I am too. The thing I fear most now is seeing someone start to add aggressively, then I know they're about to crash.
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Full position is truly a death sentence. I used to play like that too. Just thinking about it now makes me break out in cold sweat.
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Making a profit without getting cocky, losing without panicking—easier said than done... still in the learning phase.
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Range-bound trading is the most deadly. Every time I think things are stable, the market teaches me a lesson. It's so damn real.
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This guy's words are more valuable than any technical analysis. I bow to him.
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That part about adding positions really hit me. How much did I lose before I understood this principle?
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Living is more important than anything else. I want to get this tattooed on myself. No joke.
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Managing your mindset is really the hardest part; technical skills are actually simpler.
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APY_Chaser
· 01-07 21:24
Really, going all-in is like betting that you'll never make a mistake. Who can do that?
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Adding to your position is just self-deception. I've been trapped in that way several times.
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Sideways trading is the hardest to endure, especially because it easily makes people relax their vigilance. As a result, one big sell-off can wipe you out.
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Talking about these basics after ten years shows that some people really haven't learned yet.
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Living a long life sounds simple, but how much blood and sweat does it take to achieve that?
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The biggest fear after losing money is the mindset of "just one more wave and I’ll turn it around," falling into trap after trap.
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In terms of mental management, honestly, it's more valuable than any technical analysis.
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Holding cash might seem like a loss, but it's actually survival money. That's exactly what I do now.
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Making money without getting carried away is really difficult, especially when you’re earning multiple times in a row.
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Every single word in this article is earned with real money, I’m not lying to you.
I've been in this circle for almost ten years. In the first few years, I kept trading contracts, and liquidation was just a daily routine. One careless move when the market fluctuated, and my money was gone. Before I even felt the heat, it was already lost.
Back then, I was very resentful, always feeling the market was too ruthless. Later, I slowly realized that the real problem wasn't the market itself, but myself—greed, impatience, and the desire to quickly recover losses.
Now I can't say I'm very strong, but at least I haven't been wiped out by a sudden market wave in years. What I want to say are lessons learned with real money and blood. It might sound uncomfortable, but it can help you pay less tuition.
**Accept the reality after being trapped**
The scariest thing isn't the account loss itself, but starting to deceive yourself. I've seen too many people, after being trapped, only have one thought—add to their position. Why? Because they gamble on "another wave of market movement will free me."
But there's a big problem with this. If adding to your position isn't supported by solid logic or a clear plan, you're actually increasing your risk, not lowering your cost. Many people step into this trap gradually, getting deeper and deeper, and eventually can't turn around. Relying on adding to positions to reverse losses is often the beginning of doubled losses.
**Be extra cautious during the quietest market times**
After a big rally, if the market stays sideways for a long time, there are two possibilities: either it's gathering strength for the next move or brewing a trend reversal. This calm period can easily lull people into complacency, and everyone starts relaxing their vigilance, leading to various thoughts and ideas.
In fact, this seemingly stable sideways period hides the greatest risks. The more you think everything is fine, the more you should consider the worst-case scenario. Often, market turning points are buried in these "safe-looking" moments.
**Keep some reserve in your position**
Going all-in looks "powerful," but in reality, it pushes you into a corner. The market's movement will never fully follow your expectations. If you make a wrong judgment once and have no spare funds to handle emergencies, you'll probably be forced out.
Keep two or three成 of cash on hand. It may seem like giving up some gains, but it's the price of surviving longer. In this market, staying alive is more important than anything else.
**Mindset is the ultimate elimination factor**
The real reason people get eliminated in this circle isn't because of poor technical skills, but because of emotional outbursts. After making profits, they start to get cocky, feeling invincible; after losses, they panic and make reckless moves.
Whether you can survive long-term depends on whether you can control your own heart. Not getting carried away after gains, not panicking after losses—sounds simple, but it's the hardest lesson to learn. Yet, it's also the most important.
Mainstream coins like ETH and BNB's price movements are visible to us all. But in the face of major market trends, personal skills and luck often matter less than mindset and risk management.
All these lessons are paid for with blood and tears. There are no fancy tricks—just ways to help you survive. If you're not aiming for overnight riches but want to walk steadily, then maybe our paths are truly the same.